High school was a wired thing for me, like most other people,
it had its ups and downs and all a round’s, but for the most part it was good.
My first high school was Kinnick high school on the U.S navy base in Yokosuka
Japan. I didn't like it much at first, I was hazed by the other African American
students for not conforming the “Black” stereotype on a daily bases. But they
still used me when they needed help with homework. I was also hazed by the Philippine
American group, again for not conforming to the “black” stereotype. It is also
at this school where I would learn to grow up. As you can imagine constantly being
hazed every day changes you, I didn’t conform to the stereotype they wanted me
to be, but I did (through a series of successful and unsuccessful attempts” to
gain their respect. I was able to gain respect by loosening up on topics and in
my attitude in general. I pulled the metaphorical stick out of my ass as they
would say, well without the metaphorical part. I actually got to know people
and people got to know me, I also took part in volunteering opportunities
through our JROTC program and through the Red Cross program, this got some of
the student’s attention and people respected me for working for something bigger
than myself. Still I was made fun of every now and then. But just when I thought
I had gained the school status I wanted, my family and I were transferred to here
to Washington. I would finish my high school years here in Washington and to
some things up I loved it. I took part in school sports for the first time and
got to meet tons of people through that, my classes were easy to me, I loved
the teachers, and I got extra attention (both good and bad) from the students
and teachers being one of the seven African American students at the school. All
in all I love high school, I grew up in high school and learned tons of things I
never knew. Now as you can see my high school experience was the complete opposite
of what Grotto has written. He calls high school a place where students don’t
learn anything and is boring, if this is true then why do I see so many smiles
whenever I was at high school, why did I hear so many laughs? Why did I see so
many happy people? Why you ask, because people were happy when they were at school,
well for the most part anyway. Now when it comes to learning he may have a
point, but learning is not totally at fault of the school or the program, most
learning comes from how much the students want to learn. If the student does
not want to learn then they won’t, you can’t force a student to learn. Some
learning disability is at fault of the school though, bad teachers can hinder
the learning ability of already bad students. It also makes students who don’t
want to learn lose faith in the educational system and drop out. Also I am not happy how he bases all high
schools on his experience, it opens up for bias and makes him sound like an awful
teacher, in my opinion. Also he claims that teachers have the same high school experience
as the students, and again this is wrong, teachers are people to, people with
different experiences and looks on life. Also there is a time difference
between teachers and students, and as we know new things are being taught to
students every year. So claiming that the teachers and the students have the
same school experience is bogus. All in all I do not agree completely with what
Gotto is trying to say about high school, and my high school experience was completely
opposite of what Grotto wrote in the paper we read as a class.
I think that it really depends on the combination, the student and the school. Some students learn differently and when they do not conform to how the teacher expects them to learn a subject, the student often gets labeled defiant and a problem child. I see this often with my grandson, he had a lot of issues in school but instead of trying to help him they just would suspend him or expel him.
ReplyDeleteSounds like you were lucky and got what you needed and had the tools and support to know how to get what you needed.
Great comparison Paul. I enjoyed reading it.